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The bonds of brotherhood established at Benedictine last a lifetime. For Cadets from the class of 1911 to last year’s graduates, this is the place to stay connected and up-to-date with Benedictine College Preparatory and fellow alumni. The advancement office strives to create moments and events where our alums are able to connect with each other, with current Cadets, and with their alma mater. Through these connections, it is our hope that we can strengthen the bonds within a brotherhood that spans several decades.
We hope to see as many of our BCP alumni as possible throughout the year at our special events and school activities! Look out for invitations and event information in your inbox and your mailbox, as well as events posted on the Special Events page and on social media. In addition to our two annual magazines (Labora and The Towers), we strive to keep in touch with our alumni through regular email communication and mailers, so it is imperative that you keep your information current in our database.
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Alumni Headliners
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Clayton Navarre '10
Restaurateur
Clayton Navarre grew accustomed to serving stuffed sandwiches and other savory dishes in his Fan District restaurant. At the moment, however, he is serving something else: proud defiance in the face of a pandemic that hit Richmond-area restaurants – his included – very hard. Navarre closed Poor Boys, his three-year-old New Orleans-style eatery, last September. Though Poor Boys survived the worst of the pandemic, Navarre said the rough ride prompted him to “explore all options.” Ultimately, he chose to turn the page. He said he hopes to open another restaurant in the near future. He is searching, he said, for the proper partners and a choice location. Navarre is a self-made restaurateur who has climbed the ladder one rung at a time. He recalls a lesson he learned while working as a cook at Glory Days, another local establishment: “I needed to have a second shirt in my car on Burger Night, because I was going to sweat through my first shirt.” He still sweats the details. “I take great pride when food goes out in a timely manner and not only looks great but also tastes great,” he said.
Navarre, who played football at Benedictine under coach Greg Lilly, said he treats restaurant work and life in general as a team sport. “We need to have the whole team working together to push out a good product,” he said. “No team, no accomplishments.” Navarre’s ties to Benedictine helped keep Poor Boys afloat. He expressed gratitude for the hundreds of dollars of food purchased during a Benedictine homecoming. He saluted former Cadets “who I hadn’t seen in years but who would show up to say, ‘Hi,’ have a drink with me and order food to go.” Those experiences, he said, were significant not only from a business but also from a personal standpoint. “They showed me that (Benedictine) green really does get into your blood.” -
Dr. William McKenna '07
Clinical/Forensic Psychologist
When reduced to its simplest terms, Dr. William McKenna’s job description as a clinical/forensic psychologist is essentially this: to see, to listen, and to understand. But not to judge. Never to judge. McKenna’s multi-faceted practice includes service at Virginia’s only facility for sexually violent predators (the Virginia Center for Behavioral Rehabilitation). Yes, he said, the individuals with whom he works there “have done some horrible things. But that doesn’t mean they have lost their worth in God’s eyes.” He said his Catholic faith has helped mold his personal and professional belief that each individual has “inherent worth and dignity.” His goal when conducting forensic evaluations of sex offenders, he said, “is helping the courts understand not only how someone became an offender, but also – and more importantly – how we can help this individual learn to control his urges and actions.” McKenna, admitted in multiple Virginia courts as a clinical/forensic psychology expert, said most – if not all – of his patients share a common denominator: the desire to be heard, seen, and appreciated. He pointed to Genesis 16:13: “Hagar says to the Lord, ‘You are the God who sees me.’ This is the deepest longing from not only a theological but also a psychological point of view level: to be seen and heard by another.”
The teachings and philosophy of Saint Benedict are woven into the fabric of McKenna’s being. He attended Belmont Abbey after graduating from Benedictine in 2007. Benedictine, he said, provided him with “self-discipline and attention to detail that has been vital in my life.” He said Belmont Abbey “taught me how to think for myself, and that the pursuit of knowledge is a life-long venture.” He said he is who he is today because of his Benedictine and Belmont Abbey education. That statement is literally true. McKenna met his wife, Laura, at Belmont Abbey. They have two young daughters. -
Mark Weber '79
Information Technology / Sales Executive and Professor
Mark Weber didn’t invent the concept of perpetual motion. But he might have perfected it. After more than 30 years as a conspicuously successful executive and innovator in the field of information technology, Weber experienced an epiphany of sorts. “I realized that, ‘You know what? I don’t need to do this anymore,’” he said. “So, when I turned 55, I basically drew a line in the sand, said ‘That’s it,’ and started to look for other ways to contribute.” He found what he was seeking at Catholic University in Washington, D.C. There, he built and now directs a sales-oriented academic program that offers three classes and a sales degree. His intent, he said, was to improve the professional prospects of college students who typically stumble into sales careers almost by accident. But he didn’t stop there.
Indeed, Weber seldom stops. He said he sits on “a few tech boards” and assists “several other companies” in advisory capacities. He plays golf, pickleball, and tennis. He and his wife, Kathy, have raised five children, two of whom were adopted from Russia. En route, Weber coached his children’s sports teams – in all, more than 35 teams in four sports. At one point, he said, he was coaching a son’s junior varsity high school baseball team while also directing a multi-billion-dollar tech firm with thousands of employees. How did he do it? He laughed. “I got up early,” he said. “Oh – and I have a wonderful wife.” There is about Weber a proper but affable air that seems at odds with his status as a mover and shaker in the IT world. Benedictine, he said, is to some extent responsible. The school “expected a lot of us,” he said. “They expected high character. They expected morality. Basically, they expected us to be gentlemen.” Weber served as Benedictine’s battalion executive officer in 1978-79. -
Nigel Williams '12
Bon Air Correctional Center Art Teacher / Wealth Manager at Agili
Nigel Williams painted a portrait of success, figuratively speaking, as a standout football player at Benedictine and Virginia Tech. Today his artistic endeavors are entirely literal. Williams enjoys drawing with pen and ink and currently is exploring acrylic pour painting, a technique in which acrylic paint is blended with a liquid medium and then poured onto a surface such as a canvas or smooth, flat piece of wood. The artist creates striking and unpredictable patterns by lifting and tilting the flat surface or by otherwise encouraging the paint’s tendency to flow. So enthusiastic is Williams about the psychological benefits of art that he and Elizabeth Scolaro, his former instructor at Benedictine, conducted night classes at the Bon Air Correctional Center until the pandemic got in the way. Williams even visited Kenya before the pandemic began to howl to meet with native teachers and exchange thoughts on art instruction and technique.
Art, he said, is not only a mode of self-expression but also a wonderful emotional outlet for teens and adults who find themselves mired in reality that is less than ideal. He said the adolescent males with whom he dealt at the Bon Air Correctional Center seemed to not only appreciate but also enjoy the sessions. “It was something they could control,” he said. “It was a release, almost; an escape.” Williams knows the feeling. He said more than a few of his Virginia Tech teammates sought an after-hours release from the rigors and regimentation of major college football. For some, it was music. For others, it was singing. “For me,” he said, “it was art.” Williams, a wealth manager with Agili, a financial planning firm, was signed by the Buffalo Bills as a non-drafted free agent in 2017 and by the Arizona Cardinals in 2018. He joined Benedictine coach Greg Lilly’s staff as an assistant coach prior to the 2019 season. -
Joe Webber '62
Catholic Deacon and Dean of Students at Texas A&M-Commerce
Joe Webber, an irrepressible 78-year-old, describes himself as “a master juggler” of time and tasks. Who can argue? Over the past 40-plus years, Webber has filled more roles than the most versatile Broadway understudy: Marine, college administrator, cattle farmer, and Catholic deacon. He also is one half of an enduring marriage, a father of three, and a grandfather of 16. “We all share the same 24 hours every day,” Webber said. “But setting priorities, properly using time, strong faith, and God’s grace will invariably pay huge dividends.” Webber knows a thing or two about time and commitment. He and his wife, Saint Gertrude alumna Kay Meyer ’62, have been married for 55 years. He was a Marine (active duty and reserve) for 30 years and an educator/administrator for 40. He has been a deacon at St. Joseph’s Church in Cumby, TX, for nine years. He has been a cattle farmer for four decades. Webber retired – well, sort of – in 2006 after serving for 24 years at Texas A&M-Commerce. He spent the last 18 of those years as the school’s dean of students.
The passage of time, he said, has taught him “how to take care of business – and that includes God’s business.” His time as a deacon, he said, “has been an honor, a privilege, and more than a little humbling. After all – you don’t say no to Jesus.” Webber grew up in Richmond, and his home on West Grace Street was only a block or so from where the statue of Robert E. Lee once stood. “I was a city boy,” Webber said. Today he is anything but. He runs 70 head of Angus/Brahma hybrid cattle on his farm near Cumby. Benedictine, Webber said, was the seedbed in which his work ethic took root. Father Adrian and football coach Bobby Ross, he said, “played no small part.” -
Dean Ngendakuriyo '17
Future Army Medic
Born in Burundi (East Africa), Dean Ngendakuriyo and his family made their way to the United States when he was six years old. Growing up with a love and talent for football, Dean had his heart set on playing professionally, but always saw his mom (a nurse) as the one who wore the superhero cape. After participating on Benedictine’s Middies football team, Dean saw a future as a Cadet thanks to the Corporate Internship Program. Through that program, he worked at Bon Secours where his love for medicine was heightened. Destined to play football for an ivy league school, Dean instead chose a path in the military via West Point. Unfortunately, Dean experienced several injuries during his four years of playing collegiate football and grew into a deep depression, with a lost sense of identity and hope. Realizing football wouldn’t be his future after college, Dean recalled his time in the hospital and his love for medicine and helping others.
After overcoming his own struggles and with his strong Catholic faith as a foundation, Dean became a counselor for his football team and his military company. Now, this summer, Dean will begin his training in the U.S. Army Medical Center of Excellence and will later be stationed at Fort Hood. When Dean first planned to pursue a career in the medical field, he wanted to be an orthopedic surgeon but after his own battle with depression, he knew God was calling him to something greater. With a desire to bring light to the realities of mental illness, Dean intends to be a psychiatrist for veterans and those serving our country. -
Rob Wittman '77
United States CongressmanThroughout his life, Rob Wittman has continuously asked himself “where can I best serve?,” and what began as a career in public health and science has developed over time and grown into a life of public service. Beginning in 1984 with a desire to give back to his community, Rob helped reform the local Boy Scouts and the Junior Chamber of Commerce which led him to serve on the Montross Planning Commission. And from there, his life in politics took off.
Over the next 20 years, Rob served on town council, as Mayor, and on the Board of Supervisors before being elected in 2005 to the Virginia House of Delegates. And since 2007, Rob has served as the U.S. Representative for Virginia’s 1st Congressional District. During his time in office, he authored and helped pass into law the Chesapeake Bay Accountability and Recovery Act, a bill that works to enhance and properly manage Chesapeake Bay programs and resources. And as part of his role on the Natural Resource Committee, he has worked with Virginia’s six Native American tribes to formally receive the federal recognition they deserve. Furthermore, throughout his time in Congress, Rob has been an outspoken advocate for proper defense funding for the United States and for overall global stability.
Whether advocating for our men and women in uniform, being a champion of the Chesapeake Bay, or speaking on the House floor, Rob has set a foundation of servant leadership in all that he does. Influenced by his parents, his faith, and his experience at Benedictine and through Virginia Tech’s Corps of Cadets, Rob is committed to serving others, building a better society, and leading from the heart. -
Deacon Charles Williams ’69
Director of the Office for Black Catholics in the Diocese of RichmondWhen his church was closed in the name of integration more than 50 years ago, Rev. Mr. Charles Williams walked away from his faith claiming he did not need the God who allowed it to happen. More than 25 years later, he found his way back to God and immersed himself in his faith and with the goal of effectively serving the black Catholic community. After being ordained in 2013, he became a volunteer chaplain with the diocesan prison ministry and served on the board of GraceInside, an organization aimed at bringing God’s Word to those incarcerated. In 2016, Deacon Charles was recognized for working on the front lines for justice with the national “Keep the Dream Alive Honors” from Catholic Charities USA in appreciation for his lifelong commitment and service. Just two years later, Deacon Charles was appointed director of the Office for Black Catholics to seek opportunities for ongoing inclusion and participation of black Catholics within the life of the diocese. As director, Deacon Charles knows there is a lot of work to be done in Central Virginia.
With the realization that there are wounds that need to be healed, he is on a mission to hold listening sessions with the African American Catholic community in an effort to move forward. Constantly seeking ways to change individuals’ minds and hearts, Deacon Charles emphasizes the importance of educating others, engaging in and staying in conversation, and always seeking God’s calling. As only one of two African Americans in his graduating class at Benedictine, he says he always felt cared for and that his voice mattered. Now, he hopes to show that same kindness to other young men – to be that role model – and to show them that they, too, matter.
*Since original publication, Deacon Charles entered into eternal life on January 27, 2022. -
Wesley Steelman '15
Henrico County Police Officer“Knowing if someone would have stopped them, they might still be alive.” At the end of his middle school career, Wesley Steelman started researching options for high school and was immediately attracted to Benedictine’s military leadership program where he went on to play varsity baseball and become S-4 Captain. After graduating from Lynchburg College, Wesley was left struggling to figure out his next steps. During his time as a Cadet, he was affected by the deaths of three fellow Cadets (Sam Cadden ’13, Sean Reynolds ’15, and Seth Wilson ’17) – each of whom died in separate automobile accidents.
As he reflected on his own life and the lives of these Cadets, he kept thinking how each of their accidents could have been prevented. In January 2020, after seven months of intense training through the 71st Basic Police Academy, Wesley started his career as a Henrico County police officer. Thinking of his friends, he’s dedicated to road police as he wants to help prevent the loss of life and to save their families the grief of losing a loved one. Wesley even aspires to one day be on the state’s Crash Investigation Team, where he will study, examine, and report on how crashes occur to prevent them from happening again. However, what Wesley likes the most about his job is the interaction with the community. He enjoys learning from citizens, hearing what they need from the police, and how the department can help the community be safer and ensure citizens feel at ease.
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